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Ch 33: The Genitals - Wheel of Consent Book

Ch 33: The Genitals

This page is notes for the Chapter 33 – About the Genitals – in the book
The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent.

Chapters 31-39 are not in the original book.
They can be purchased here.

More notes from other chapters here.

One of my favorite quotes of all time

At this point in the conversation, my friend tried to play what he probably thought was his trump card. He asked me, “Well, what if you found out that the trans woman you were attracted to still had a penis?”

I laughed and replied that I am attracted to people, not to disembodied body parts. And I would be a selfish, ignorant, and unsatisfying lover if I believed that my partner’s genitals existed primarily for my pleasure rather than her own. All that you ever need to know about genitals is that they are made up of flesh, blood, and millions of tiny, restless nerve endings – anything else that you read into them is mere hallucination, a product of your overactive imagination.

Julia Serano, Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of  Femininity

Resources

Anatomy: Scarleteen.com – About vulvas, and about penises, and so very much more.

More anatomy: Cyndi Darnell.com – The Atlas of Erotic Anatomy and Arousal – a video course

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