This page is notes for Chapter 36 – Playing with Sex – for the book,
The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent.
Chapters 31-39 are not in the original book.
They can be purchased here.
More notes from other chapters here.
Quotes
If the spirit moves you, let me groove you . . . Let’s get it on
– Marvin Gaye
The only unnatural sex act, is the one you can’t perform.
– Alfred Kinsey
Do you think some Penetration Therapy would help with that?
– A student
I think I’m supposed to be aroused right now but mostly I’m just confused.
– A student
Some people like spanking, others don’t. Some people like their nipples licked, others don’t. Are these things sex? If you want them to be, sure. It doesn’t really matter. What matters is that if you like them, you give yourself permission to do and to enjoy them. And that if you don’t, you don’t.
– Marty Klein
One of the big problems that we make is that we are always protecting the male ego. And it’s not a good idea. The guys are more resilient than we give them credit for.
Almost every man that I have ever been with that I show or indicate what I like is greatly relieved and grateful. So women, get in there and take over. Run the fuck.
– Betty Dodson
And About the How-to’s of Sex
The Pleasure Mechanics: pleasuremechanics.com
Scarleteen: For teens but great for everyone: scarleteen.com
Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross: dodsonandross.com
Gloria Brame: The Truth About Sex: A Sex Primer for the 21st Century
Charla Hathaway: 8 Erotic Nights offers some other fun things to experiment with.